- Decide you want a relationship with God.
- Decide you want to be in God’s kingdom with Jesus as your king.
- Decide your old value system was not right, and that instead you want to adopt and live by God’s value system of sacrificial love for the benefit of others.
- Tell God about all this, and that you want to be forgiven for the way you lived before.
- Find a community of others who are following Jesus and can encourage you as you grow in this new way of living.
- When you have difficulties, tell God about them and ask God for help to live well.